Daily Question/advice ( Day4) when is enough ??? I need your help !
Ive had this friend for 5 years now. We have become very close, and the only true friend i came claim..
However, she met this man one time, and then he moved to arizona. So, they have a long distance relationship. He is 6 years older than her, and she is not even 18 yet. She claims she loves him , and spends her entire life talking to him, about him. everything him.. I have herd their conversations and he cusses at her, trying to break things off every other day. She is sooo consumed in him she will come back, apologizing, and saying things are fine. I come from an abusive family, and I see when others are being abused. she is in ''love'' and refuses to see it. So, i told her that i cannot be a good friend to her when she refuses to listen to me, and understand. so she said she picked this guy she barely truly knows who cusses at her over me, her ''best'' friend. He even cussed me out and threatened me, because i tried to make her see what kind of controlling jerk he is. She thinks im jealous, but thats the furthest of the truth, I miss her friendship but she really has no desire for me as long as she has him..
what should I do ?>
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